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I´ve figured out that I just say hello! and smile friendly if people are staring at me, as if I knew them or they knew me. They usually say hello! back and stop staring... and I always say hello to the people I meet in my apartment complex... not because I always recognize them, but they certainly recognize me and having a nice contact with your neighbours is important... it makes you feel "normal" when you small-talk to people who accept you for who you are (not because they know you, they accept you as their neighbour), and if you meet people who don´t like your apperance, you know that most people you meet like you... and that it´s their problem if they don´t like you. Of course I get sad if I am verbally attacked, but the next second I meet the ordinairy kind people again, who are everywhere... ...but it was harder in school... of course... where everybody is anxious about looking different and being accepted... wouldn´t want to go through that again... but as an adult...it´s much easier...
_________________ / Sanna
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